Washington Square
Posted by Peter Campbell on 14:08:14 4/6/2006
I found myself thrown back in time today. Tim and I were sitting on one of the many benches in Washington Square Park before we went to see Robert Hunter play at The Other End. This was a routine we did often before getting the night going down in the Village. Both of us in our suits among the wide variety of fashion displayed at Washington Square. No one feels out of place though. Everyone belongs. Tim and I had some great moments people watching, and making each other laugh. That's it. Just another joyous memory of being with Tim.
Belated birthday thoughts
Posted by Christine Anderson on 23:23:49 10/16/2005
Hi baby, returned home from Friday from vaction. Thought about the trips we talked about; lit a candle in an obscure country church. You would have liked the people - pure of heart and satisfied with their lives. Every year on your birthday I've either gone back to San Fransicso or gone somewhere we talked about. This year brought the Southern Cross - I felt and miss you.
Love, C
Happy Birthday Timmy
Posted by Betsy on 23:58:49 10/4/2005
Thinking of you~
Happy birthday Tim
Posted by Eric on 14:08:24 10/4/2005
It's been about six years now and your smiles, laughter, and jokes are sorely missed but fondly remembered
Bucky F**ing Dent
Posted by Joe Kenny Stonehill friend on 8:58:08 10/3/2005
Reils
Yesterday was the 27th year anniversary of the Bucky Dent game. You and I were among a very few Yankee fans in the basement of O Hara Hall that afternoon with something to cheer about (First time I ever skipped class in my life ) We got to be friends that day being the minority up there @ Stonehill. God Bless and the Yanks all the way this year ?
Tim
Posted by Peter Campbell on 17:46:34 9/27/2005
What a positive legacy you left us. I read the recent messages, and man did you spread your love in many places.
I am glad your family got this message board back up and running. It gave Chuck and I a chance to get caught up.
I took my family down to Manhattan this past July, and brought them to Wall Street. I think it helped them to understand my loss a little better, and that of everyone who lost someone that day. Just like the messages I have read here today, my memories of Tim are so uplifting. I hope my children are as lucky as I am.
Yesterday
Posted by Monique Reilly on 18:49:00 9/12/2005
We missed you so much yesterday. After incredible sadness we ended the day with incredible happiness and memories of you at Gilgo. You must have heard your name a million times!
Chuck actually got up on the surf board! I have a feeling you were giving him a little pull from above. Can you do that again? We missed the picture and Connor will never believe it!
We are blessed with your memories and the love we have for each other.
Your Brother Chuck
Posted by Patrick Kennedy on 13:23:34 9/12/2005
Tim:
I had an opportunity to have lunch with Chuck last Thursday. You were the main topic of conversation, what with the Tim Reilly Rendezvous coming up on 10/14/05 and the 911 Anniversity. I made it a point to watch the Memorial on Sunday morning and felt a tug of pride to see Chuck standing at the podium as he read off the names of our lost love ones. I could tell by his tight lipped expression that he was having a tough keeping it in control. He did you and all of us Proud.
Jeannnie & I attended the MDD Boat Ride on Friday night and sat with Harold and Mary at table # 1. Ed, Pat, Peggy, Ned and Lynn were right next to us at table #2. We have great weather and a wonderful time even if Chuck and Monique were noticably absent. Chuck said he did not get an invite and did not feel appropiate to call. Furthermore, he said he had other plans and could not have attended anyway.
Never to pass up an opportunity to get in a dig, I cornered John Foley and told him how disappointed Chuck was not to get invited. I let John squirm for awhile until I fessed up and told him the truth. We had a good laugh. John is doing well but like the rest of us, misses his absent friends.
Say hi to Rudy, Johnny Rhodes and all the rest, we sure could use your help on this latest hurricane.
Your Friend,
Patrick
Remembering Tim
Posted by Kathie ODonnell on 22:42:26 9/11/2005
Tim, thinking of you and your family today.
Tim
Posted by Betsy on 20:57:47 9/11/2005
Thinking of you today...and grateful to have been blessed with your friendship. God Bless you Timmy~
anniversary thoughts
Posted by Brigid Lynch Rubin on 20:20:38 9/11/2005
Just wanted you to know that I was thinking about Tim on this 4th anniversary. I was retelling a sailing story the other day which included Tim...a boatload of Stonehill friends and some funny and fond memories!
Brigid
You're still in my thoughts
Posted by Tripp on 16:11:40 9/11/2005
It's hard to believe four years have passed. It's harder to believe over twenty years have passed since we were in school together. I'll be thinking about you today, buddy.
thinking of you
Posted by bob hawthorn on 20:10:15 9/10/2005
Tim,
i drove with my dad today on the garden state parkway and we spoke of you and the tragedy of 9/11. as we drove i thought of all the great memories i have of you. we also spoke of bobby coll another new ro guy who was lost on 9/11. when we got to new rochelle we exited the hutch at webster avenue. as i passed rose hill , then elk ave, i smiled thinking what a great friend i have.
it is a great weekend of sports in the new york area. the us open, yanks vs. boston and the giants opener. if you were here i am sure we would have caught one of these events, if not all.
love you and miss you, bh
More web links to messages about Tim
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 20:46:28 9/8/2005
Legacy.com
http://www.legacy.com/Guestbook.asp?PersonID=102253
September 11 Victims
http://www.september11victims.com/september11victims/VictimInfo.asp?ID=3316
Marsh
Tim, Tennis & the US OPEN
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 12:11:22 9/8/2005
Tim,
Monique and I were fortunate to be invited to opening day to this year's US Open. Man, the weather and the tennis were great. I couldn't help but remember the great time we had there when you scored tickets to both the day and evening sessions back in 1996. How do I remember the date you ask? Well while cleaning up after CJ left for college,I came across the hat I bought in his closet.
Do you think Agassi has enough in the tank to beat Federer or do you think a guy like Ginapri can pull it off? Time will tell and no doubt we will be in for some good tennis this weekend.
Miss you, all my love,
Chuck
Message Board Working and Tim Reilly Golf Outing
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 18:07:05 8/31/2005
The message boards should be working, meaning that you can post - please contact me directly if you have any issues.
Chuck also asked me to post the date for Tim's memorial golf outing. It will be on Friday, October 14th at the Link's at Union Vale. Chris Hughes is working up the announcements which are anticipated to be sent out around Labor Day. The cost will be $110.
I hope that all visitors to this site are well.
-Maureen
Spam
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 9:13:18 2/18/2005
There has been a recent outbreak of spam on this message board and I am unable to indentify and/or block the IP addresses of the spammers. For now, the only way I can delete spam is manually. This is a short-term solution and I will be contacting the hosts of Tim's web service to see about a more secure way of troubleshooting this unfortunate problem.
So if you see any bad activity on this site, contact me so I can remove it.
-Maureen
I had a Dream
Posted by Patrick E Kennedy on 13:55:41 12/1/2004
I woke up Thanksgiving morning and announced to my wife that I just had a dream about Tim Reilly.
In the dream, I was standing on a corner in Bolton Landing, NY with my Ice Fishing buddy at the intersection of 9N and the road that leads to the Sagamore Hotel . It was dusk and the surrounding buildings were covered in snow with their Christmas lights peeking through. A grey SUV with green ski's mounted on the roof rack pulled up to the red traffic light. Needless to say I was surprised to see that the driver was none other than our friend Tim Reilly. Of course he was dressed just as he appears in the 1995 Okemo photo (in the pictures section of this website). As the light turned green and he slowly pulled away, he gave me a big grin and waved. I was left with a overwhelming sense of peace and calm. It felt so good to see his smiling face.
I related my dream to Chuck on Monday and he responded that he was happy that his brother had finally gotten some new ski equipment, was still enjoying himself and riding in style.
Thanks for the visit Tim and say hi to all our other friends you happen to see.
Love,
PK
~Hapy Halloween!~
Posted by Taylor Foley on 9:46:49 10/31/2004
Hey Tim,
Just wanted to say hey and happy halloween!
Missing you!
ttyl,
Taylor Foley
The links part 3
Posted by Cousin Tom Hughes on 10:03:51 10/11/2004
Tim:
In honor of your birthday Reilly Rendevous went off on as glorious at day as you could hope for on a golf course, lush greenery and a warm, dry breeze. Team Hughes "stole" nephew Conor from Team Reilly-Brady-Renk-Ardis for the day and his spectacular long drives (with a beautiful slight hook) were for the ages. Team Hughes won by one stroke over brother Chuck's crew (after a recount of strokes, no pencil erasures to prove it). Chuck, Bill and crew drew a toast to brotherhood and you- couldn't have been a better day and I know that you took care of us all. Thanks for helping me break 100- got a 99. Tj's first time out he got what I did last year-106.
It's another year of playoffs in the Bronx and the Hub- the Evil Empire versus the Beantown Idiots! Time to erase 1918!
Later,
Cousin Tom
Hey
Posted by Taylor Foley on 20:30:37 10/9/2004
hey tim what goin on? i just wanted to tell u how much i love u and miss u! i want u to no that u are always on my mind and i will never forget u! i love u lots taylor foley xoxoxoxo
happy birthday
Posted by Taylor Foley on 20:48:29 10/7/2004
dear timmy i just wanted to wish u a late happy birthday and i wanted you to no that we are all thinking of u and u are in all of our dreams and minds-love u always taylor foley xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Sunday in Red Hook
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 8:54:17 10/7/2004
Tim:
JP played at this place called Lilly's in Red Hook Bklyn on Sunday. The decor had not been updated since the 50's (cracked furniture and dusty Hawaiian decor), it's just the type of place we'd crack up, crack open, and just have good craik! The bartender was playing a set of old standards and I missed dancing like fools to swing, you leading me with your Arthur Murray (?) grooves. I mentioned to the bartender that I liked her music (not telling her about you), and later on that evening, she presented me with the CD. I also learned later that she lost friends on that fateful day as well, and she will be marrying a 9-11 widower. Strange that we found that connection. Thanks Lillies, and I miss you bro.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Posted by robert hawthorn on 20:01:16 10/5/2004
tim,
i just wanted to tell you i miss you. i can't believe it was three years ago on this day i was sitting in St. John and Paul for your memorial mass. i still think back of all those wonderful times i was so fortunate to have shared with you. i hope you will look over us all. love b.h.
p.s. the yankees are in the playoffs game 1 tonight. those mid-afternoon calls hey bob i got an extra ticket...
Saturday, September 11th
Posted by Monique Reilly on 10:30:34 9/19/2004
Chuck and I held each other through the entire ceremony in the city thinking only of you. We miss you so much.
A Children's Book
Posted by Kendall Foley on 22:48:56 9/17/2004
Momo,
Your story is amazing! You have taken a time when almost all seems lost and turned it into exactly what Timmy would have wanted. Once this book is published not only will it console and remind (not that we need to be reminded) what an influence and joy it wa sto have someone like your brother in our lives. Now children everywhere who have or will deal with loss,will know that they are not alone. It has helped me to feel timmy's presense in my life,as well as in my dreams. You never cease to amaze me with your warm, creative and loving heart. I love you and wish you luck with this children's book. love- kendall
My Big Brother
Posted by Mary Foley Morgan on 21:27:36 9/14/2004
Maureen,
Your book is great. When it is published let me know. I want to donate a copy or two to my school's library in memory of Tim. God bless. Mary
Cannon Balls
Posted by Jamie Duddy on 22:34:49 9/11/2004
I was sitting with my my family a little while ago watching a news channel reliving the events of 9/11/01 with them when my daughter Colleen(nicknamed Hurricane, six years old), asked what this was all about. I explained that it was about the day when the planes hit the buildings and they fell down. She said, "You mean when Timmy died?". I said yes. She asked if I had a picture of him she could see.I said yes and came to the site. She saw the pictures and has since gone on bed. I stayed around and decided to read the messages.
Now knowing the site will end I had to share a memory.
Collen's memory of Tim stems from the August prior to 9/11 when Tim visited after a golf outing - The GIO. He was my cart mate at this outing for many years and always came down to " The Shore" after it for a weekend. That particular weekend Tim took it upon himself to teach our son - Donny - how to do Cannon Balls. He was 6 at the time. It was quite a site and instilled memories that won't be forgotten.
I want to thank Maureen for hosting this site. For me personally, it has been a refuge when there was noone to talk to about how I felt or knew the despair I had. I feel a kinship with those who posted messages here and thank you all for sharing your stories.
Tim, T-Bone, T- Bisciut,
I'll never forget the many outrageous and memorable times we had together. We miss you. Thanks for watching over us and "Keep 'em cold" until we meet again.
Love,
JD, Dorothy, Donny and Hurricane
TR5-5328
Posted by robert hawthorn on 20:46:02 9/11/2004
tim,
three years have past and i have such wonderful thoughts and memories of time spent with you. i watched this morning and listened as the names were read. i had a Stonehill flashback as they read Timmy Coughlins name and thought of the three of us at Brother Mikes. it is sad to think both of you are not here today.i just heard recently that Tommy O'Rourke passed away.i mention this because i wrote on this site 1/11/02 about a guy i knew from fordham and he survived both attacks at the trade center. he worked with bobby coll another new ro guy. tommy and i spoke on 1/11/02 and he said to me how fortunate i was to have had a friend like you when i told him about you. i hope the two of you have met, or soon will, as you will have many like stories and wonderful memories to share. thank you maureen and the entire reilly family for this wonderful site so i can share my memories and stories. p.s. - could use your help on the golf course october 8th - see you, love b.h.
3 Years
Posted by The Puopolo Family on 18:29:18 9/11/2004
Hard to believe it has been three years since the attack. We just want you all to know our family still thinks of you all. We hope that time has helped heal some wounds and pray that the days get easier.
Frank, Trish, Mike and Christine
Thinking of you!
Posted by Taylor Foley on 12:21:02 9/11/2004
Dear Timmy,
I have been thinking of out alot lately. I think its because its september 11th the day you past away and your anniversary. I know that I didn't know you that well but I feel like I have known you for my whole life. I feel like you were the one to get me through those bad times and you were the one who let me have those good times. It's like you are our guardian angel who watches over us. I am sure I am not the only one to feel that way, seeing how you have always been there for your whole family you were the one who would always brighten up the room when ever you would walk in. I have never met anyone that has said one bad thing about you and that's because there was nothing bad about you. You were perfict in my eyes!I love you lots and always will. Say hi to Tom and Jeanne!
Love,
Taylor
Thinking of you
Posted by Anne Marie Foley on 11:49:11 9/11/2004
I have been watching the memorial all morning and crying my heart out. I wanted you all to know that I am thinking of you and Tim today. Much Love, Anne Marie
"My Big Brother"
Posted by Kathleen Aponick on 10:56:31 9/11/2004
Maureen,
I loved this book! The rhymes (looks like you have your mom's gift here) and the illustrations (wonderful!) capture not only a child grappling with the profound loss of someone she loves, but the special relationship she has with this person at such an early age. Don't think I've read anything quite like it.
The site
Posted by Kathleen Aponick on 10:41:11 9/11/2004
Dear Maureen,
Thanks for this giant notebook, which I have come to visit now and then over the last few years. It's been amazing to see how Tim has affected people's lives, even unintentionally as for the couple in Liverpool who found his business card. What a great gift to have had this open forum.
Great friend.
Posted by Kathie ODonnell on 0:50:11 9/11/2004
Tim, just back from the Jimmy Buffett concert at Fenway. Thought of you and how we somehow got out of that ticket in Bethesda after the Grateful Dead show all those years ago. Fond memories. Thanks..KO.
published in a Baltimore newspaper last week
Posted by Mike Knipp on 19:21:12 9/10/2004
Lost But Not Forgotten
by Michael A. Knipp
Three years ago, on an unfittingly ideal mid-September New York morning, 40-year-old Tim Reilly initiated his customary routine.
Like the rest of the world, he conquered the a.m. hassles of good hygiene. He showered, shaved, brushed, and dressed. He headed out to the teeming but paramount Manhattan streets. As vice president in the National Property and Loss Department of Marsh USA, a unit of Marsh & McLennan companies, he arrived at work, equipped to challenge the day in his World Trade Center office.
But for Reilly, and nearly 3000 others, Sept. 11, 2001, would be his last.
Every morning I awake to the same hassles. And just when I think that I can’t take it anymore, I lift up my wrist. On it, I wear a silver bracelet that bears the name of the late Timothy E. Reilly. For the past two years, since the first anniversary of 9/11, the bangle has adorned my arm. I’ve rarely been without it. It’s my refuge.
Shortly after the attacks, I felt a deep sense of sorrow, contrition and a million other emotions for which I couldn’t account. I wasn’t in New York or D.C. at the time, nor did I know anyone personally that perished, but I still possessed inner anger, fear and helplessness that I needed to expunge. I sought comfort, but I was hundreds of miles away from home, beginning my junior year of college. I soul searched long and hard to fill the void.
Then I stumbled on a campaign called Mercy Bands, which offered name-engraved bracelets that memorialized those who were lost in the attacks. The organization allowed me to choose a specific victim, but I decided on a random name. I didn’t know who I would get, but I was anxious to discover them. When I opened the FedEx box, I saw that glittery name imprinted on the bracelet with the initials WTC etched below. Although I never met Tim, or knew who he was until he died, I think about him everyday.
What I think about more is the manner in which he has touched my life. The means is certainly bizarre, but I never expected a stranger to have such an impact on the way that I feel or think or act at times. Often, I look down at his name and comprehend that I’m minute in the grand scheme. I may believe that I’m invincible, but I’m mistaken. I’m just another human being that could be lost in the split of a second; I’m admonished everyday that my physical existence could end at any moment. I may not have a chance to say good bye or I love you or I’m sorry. I’m not promised tomorrow.
On the third anniversary of the attacks that forever changed our lives, I’m reminded of how remarkable Americans can be in desolate times. How when most things seem mislaid to terrorists, to war, to insatiable and embarrassing feuds over who should marry and who shouldn’t, that there is still some good left in our hearts. It saddens me however, that it requires the fatalities of 3,000 innocent bystanders to force us to pause and appreciate the only true relevance behind all of this materialism: each other.
From what I’ve read about Tim Reilly on his family’s tribute page, which can be viewed at www.timreilly.com, he was a person who recognized that life’s most precious gifts were the ones inside of us. He emitted generosity and pure adoration, and he induced it in others. Three years after he’s gone, and never having known him, Tim’s vivacious gift of life continues to work its magic on me daily. I’m persistently astonished. When I meet him, I will thank him.
Until my times comes, I’ll continue to smile in the checkout lane, I’ll keep tipping the pizza girl a little extra and I’ll always hold the door open even though I’m already late. This kindness may seem overlooked as we hustle and bustle through our day, but trust me, someone is watching.
Be grateful. Make it count.
Tim
Posted by Peter Campbell on 11:55:19 9/10/2004
Incredible Chuck! It has been a while for me visiting the site, and the first message I see after all this time brought me immediately back to the great memories of Tim. Thank you, and know that I am thinking of you all.
Peter
Tim's Amex Card Found at Ground Zero
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 22:39:57 9/7/2004
The NYPD recently contacted the family about the recovery of Tim's corporate American Express card from Ground Zero.
On September 21st, 2001 a police officer with the 1st Precinct while on duty at the perimeter of Ground Zero found Tim's card. He then vouchered the card at the 1st Precinct. In August of 2002 it was then trasferred to the
Property Clerk's Office at Police Headquarters, where it was cataloged with other property found at the site. This summer a special WTC unit with the Property Clerks Office notified family members of the find. Surprisingly, the card was in good shape. To our knowledge no Marsh employee that was on the 100th floor that day has been found. Just thought all of you should know. Again, thank you kindly for all your support.
The Reilly Rendezvous Golf Outing III
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 21:02:46 8/31/2004
The Reilly Rendezvous is about the gift of life and fellowship. This day in the country honors the memory of Tim Reilly, and to his many friends. Friends who made a difference not only in Tim's lifetime, but to the rest of the Reilly family as well.
So please join us for a round of golf and reception at one of New York's best links style courses (The Links at Union Vale),in a game Tim loved to play.
The date is October 8th. Registration is at 10:30am with a shotgun start at noon. A two hour reception will follow. The cost will be $100. Checks and money orders payable to The Links at Union Vale. For reservations, please contact Chuck Reilly c/o Edward R. Reilly & Co., Inc. 18 John Street New York, NY 10038, tel# 212-233-4646 or fax#212-732-1943 or email CJReilly@Reillyandco.com
See you all on October 8th!
Unretiring Tim Reilly.com
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 20:38:00 8/31/2004
After feedback from a great number of Tim's friends, arrangements have been made to continue the site. The Reilly family thanks you one and all for your contributions to this site and keeping Tim's memory alive.
My Big Brother - Children's Picture Book
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 11:32:30 8/31/2004
I just posted a children's picture book I wrote about Tim and myself.
It was written as part of a final project for a children's literature class I took at Bank Street College of Education. After 9/11 I decided to leave the corporate life and seek a career as a teacher and help to make a difference. I think Tim had some influence on me...
The idea for this story came to me on a late night subway ride, and I felt as if Tim had sent me the story.
My friend Frank Ippolito kindly donated his time and drew the sketches. (Frank is a staff illustrator at the American Museum of Natural History.)
I hope you enjoy the story.
http://www.timreilly.com/book
-Maureen
Re: My Big Brother - Children's Picture Book
Posted by Peter Campbell on 12:29:35 9/13/2004
Maureen,
Thank you for the book. I plan on reading it to my 7 year old daughter, and 10 year old son. They have become familiar with Tim over the past three years. I will also be a little less confused when I start to cry for no reason.
Peter
Re: My Big Brother - Children's Picture Book
Posted by Rose Hughes on 20:00:07 9/3/2004
Maureen, I was so moved by you're loving tribute to Tim in the form of My Big Brother, I had to share it with my staff. When you get it published I will take six copies. Great Job
My Thoughts...
Posted by Anne Marie Foley on 15:12:50 8/30/2004
A couple of weeks ago I checked out this site and saw Maureen's posting that the site was closing down. In a weird way I thought it would always be here for me. I have so enjoyed coming here to see Timmy's smiling face, to post an email or just read the incoming messages. Reading the postings of family, friends and even strangers has comforted me these past few years. It still amazes me when I read a posting such as Mike Knipps...a total stranger that has been wearing Tim's name on his wrist for all these years, or about the family who wrote about finding Tim's business card so far from home and so many years later and took the time to find out who Timmy was. I have learned that through all the pain and sorrow our family has endured that there are so many people who truly care out there. I want to thank you Maureen for keeping this site up for so long. I will miss it but understand that it's time. So to my Reilly Cousins, Bob and my wonderful Aunt Claire we will continue our memories of times past at the next family gathering and smile and cry and remember how lucky we are to have had Tim in our lives.
Love,
Anne Marie
Reflection
Posted by Al Thuma on 9:10:35 8/25/2004
Maureen and the Reilly Family,
I've come to this site often after 9/11 to take stock of my own life. I guess being the same age as Tim, being single into my 40s and having been at work in 7 WTC that fateful day, I always have felt, "but for the grace of God it could have been me." Having Tim's site was a way of grounding myself and assessing what is really important in life. I too had a life full of fun experiences and adventerous trips around the US and the World. But 9/11 caused me to realize my life could have just as suddenly been cut short, made me reflect on what is important and to assess what one really wants out of life. In 2003, I married a very beautiful and special lady, we bought a house, and this past May we added a special gift, a son.
I'll miss being able to ground myself in viewing this site, but I'll always remember how some healing was found here.
Stay in touch.
AL, Kristen and "JP"
The Site
Posted by Cousin Tom Hughes on 10:56:03 8/24/2004
Maureen and the whole Reilly crew:
I still visit this site on occasion and for all the reasons that you mentioned. You will probably see more traffic and hits as the 3rd anniversary approaches and soon after. The idea of a book would be an absolute wonderful idea if you can get time for it. You know there would be no shortage of folks wanting a copy.
I know that Chuck will be running the 3rd Reilly Rendevous Golf outing sometime in early October, probably on one of those Mondays. I'll be there for sure and hopefully make a better showing than last year. We'll throw a few toasts for the "mayor" afterwards. I'm hoping Tim will be my "angel" on the golf course cause I'll need any help I can get.
God bless you guys and thanks for the gift of this website as a tribute to a great cousin!
Cousin Tom from Joisy
Many Thanks
Posted by Mike Knipp on 20:03:25 8/23/2004
Dear Reilly Family:
My name is Michael A. Knipp and I'm a 23-year-old journalist from Baltimore, Md. I've come upon this site as I'm doing research for an article for my editorial column that appears in a newspaper in Baltimore. I'm writing about how Tim has touched my soul, even though I've never met him.
About three years ago, shortly after 9/11, I felt a huge gap inside as the days went on, as did most Americans. I wasn't personally affected by the tragedy, but I still felt a huge loss. So I order a Mercy Band. I didn't choose any name in particular; I just received one at random. And for nearly three years now, I have had Timothy E. Reilly's name staring up from my wrist, almost everyday. I rarely take off the bracelet. He is a constant reminder to live my life as best I can.
In leiu of the anniversary, I'm writing an article for my column about the importance of giving back to the community through charity. It's important to me, especially as a young writer, to influence others to make a difference. Timothy certainly has made a difference to me. I'm just paying it forward the best way I know how.
It's funny how the world works. How one person can reach another, without ever crossing paths. I guess that's just the beauty of life.
I wish you very well.
Mike Knipp
End of Site
Posted by Brendan on 14:14:12 8/18/2004
Hi Momo,
Can you leave the site up for a week after the anniversary?
Thanks
Brendan
Timmys Website
Posted by Betsy on 19:04:23 8/12/2004
Maureen~ I guess I will be sorry to see his site go, but I understand. I have found Timmy's website to be so comforting at times. Some days when I hear "listen to the mocking bird" play in my head I know its time to visit his website and see his beautiful face and Thank God that I had the opportunity to know and love this man. Its been wonderful to read everyone’s different memories of Tim and his life and it has always made me feel better. Our world and lives are so fragile and we don’t know what the future holds but there are many days that I say to myself….. I’m going be like Tim Reilly and live my life to the fullest, as he surly did.
Thanks you and God bless you and your family.
Betsy
Retiring Tim Reilly.com
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 16:49:39 8/9/2004
As we approach the third anniversary of the day that took Tim from all of us, I am going to retire TimReilly.com
Over the course of the next few weeks I will be taking snapshots of the site to archive it, maybe make a book at some point when I have the time to do it.
But, before this site goes down, I would love to see some last posts on how you all have used this site over the last three years... Just to visit? To read through old posts? To listen to Danny Boy? Or just look at the pictures? My family and I would love to know.
The site will stay up until 9/11/04 and then will go down the next day.
Thank you all for visiting and contributing,
-Maureen Reilly
Gilgo Beach
Posted by robert hawthorn on 21:48:29 8/4/2004
Timmy,
i was driving on ocean parkway last weekend and saw the sign for Gilgo. i just smiled and laughed. i immediately thought of the 4th of july extrvaganza's on the beach at gilgo. getiing up at sunrise to drive out there and leaving at sunset. i remember taking a few mid-week days off and going to Kathy's house which was right on the Bay across from Gilgo. Miss ya !!! love bh
Business Card Found hannibalah@hotmail.com
Posted by Ant and Moy from Liverpool UK on 8:22:12 3/22/2004
Hello, we recently found one of Tim E. Reilly's business cards, lying on the floor, in Liverpool, England.
We wondered, after seeing the address on the business card, what happened to Tim... so here we are... are thoughts, prayers are with his friends and family. We didn't know Tim, but when you can put a face to a name, as we have, it brings home how tragic 9/11 was.
God Bless
ASH & MS
hutchison river parkway
Posted by robert hawthorn on 21:21:10 1/4/2004
tim,
i was riding on the hutch today and as i passed saxon woods golf course i thought of you.i started to remember all the trips up and down the parkway. golf at apawamis or at maple moor. playing paddle tennis under the lights at westchester c.c.tim you brought a big smile to my face,as always, memories of you do.
X-Mas Eve
Posted by maureen reilly on 9:15:36 12/23/2003
I'm preparing for another x-mas eve dinner in Brooklyn, this time at Baltic Street not Willow, and we will certainly miss your company. We'll be toasting two friends who just got engaged. I will be using your flutes, and will try to conjure up your talent and warmth with toasts!
I remember many years ago we spent x-mas eve at 11 Ellsworth and watched a late movie, the original Great Expectations, on PBS or channel 11. I remember being amazed and touched by your love of good stories and literature. Thanks for those precious memories. We'll be toasting you this x-mas at 11 Ellsworth. Please bless us with a beautiful day.
Love, momo
HAPPY THANKSGIVING
Posted by bob hawthorn on 22:41:47 11/25/2003
TIM,
i was writing to billy dwyer,bob mons and steve fugazy . as i finished i thought of you. this time of year i have great memories of time spent with you. turkey bowl, beechmont on the trips home from college, pre season nit at the garden for some college hoops , some golf when the weather was warm.it made me smile.. i was speaking with heals and we spoke of how you loved hitting your 5 wood. i must say you stroked it well. miss ya.. love b.h.
Tom Connolly Funeral Info
Posted by maureen reilly on 16:13:48 11/18/2003
I don't know what to say - love to you Deb and Brendan and the Connolly family.
Viewing is Thursday Evening Nov 20 - from 4-8pm
Anderson McQueen Funeral Home
2201 9th Street N
St. Petersburg, FL 33704
Ph. 727-822-2059
http://www.andersonmcqueen.com/loc.shtml
Funeral is Friday Morning Nov 21 at 11am
Holy Family Catholic Church
250 78th Avenue NE
St. Petersburg, FL 33702
(727)526-8194
http://home.catholicweb.com/holyfamily/
Hotel Info
Sirata Beach Resort
5300 Gulf Blvd.
St. Pete
1-727-363-5100
ask for Laurie Rate: $89
For the services for Tom C
Miscues and Fescue
Posted by Cousin Tom Hughes on 11:28:30 10/7/2003
Tim:
Chuck, Bill and crew ran a nice outing at the links Monday. My first time on a links style course-I now know the meaning of fescue grass. I brought a bag of Uncle John's Maxflies that he got walking around the Spring Lake Country Club. They still fly except they flew into fescue quite frequently. I also had a lesson in fast greens. Rich, Ice-Man, and JB and myself were a foursome. We finally figured out JB's swing- a hockey slapshot!
I'll be there next year for sure! It was a blast. And yes, I shot 106! Boo, hoo, hoo!
Cousin Tom from "Joisy"
Happy Birthday Timmy
Posted by Betsy on 22:40:46 10/5/2003
thinking of you....
Missing You
Posted by Chris Dwyer on 21:09:12 10/5/2003
Hey Tim,
I'll have the pleasure of playing golf Monday with alot of friends and family in you honor. I'm sure you will be watching and laughing along with the rest of us. Can you give me some help? I'm sure Billy is going to be looking for some strokes.
I Miss your smile and friendship.
Chris
Happy Birthday
Posted by robert hawthorn on 20:45:18 10/5/2003
timmy,
i was thinking of you today. time does heal but it does not take away those moments of pain or sadness that come up. i was in the heights last week. i took a stroll past 135 willow street, i just smiled and thought of all the great memories i have.. i will be thinking of you tomorrow as we tee it up.. miss ya!!! love b.h.
Miss You
Posted by Anne Marie Foley on 11:25:23 9/15/2003
Tim,
I escaped New York this 9/11 and was in LA. I thought that maybe by being so far away I wouldn't feel quite so bad. I learned that it made no difference. I was awake at 5:00 AM and watched the ceremonies on TV. I awaited patiently to hear your name. I shed many tears that morning thinking of you, Aunt Claire and the rest of the Reilly family. I know you are keeping an eye on all of us as well as hanging with the rest of the family there with you. Kiss Jeanne for me.
Love you,
Anne Marie
Tim
Posted by bob hawthorn on 22:50:56 9/11/2003
tim,
i think of you often. the other day i was reading of the passing of warren zevon and thought of how we would listen to werewolves of london, lawyers, guns and money, and excitable boy. there was a great special on the radio in tribute to warren. i just smiled and thought of great times that the songs reminded me of. i was speaking with heals we had a few laughs about our memories of time spent with you. i got an e-mail from bob mons we were mentioning some of our memories. i was riding my bicycle along the east river tuesday night it was a full moon and i looked over at the flag on the promenade and just smiled. whenever i have a TR moment it always brings a smile to my face. timmy you were always smiling and my memories of you make me realize how fortunate i am to say you are my friend. love b.h.
HI!
Posted by Maggie Rousseau on 13:14:44 9/11/2003
Dear Tim,
HI! We are missing you - especially today. Tim and Katie love all the stories Scott has to tell and you are forever in our hearts.
Today is Christopher's birthday. He is (would be) twelve years old. I guess the past two years, his birthday was overshadowed by the events of 9/11 and your leaving us. But this year is hard. Please do me a favor and make sure there is a great big party for Chris today!!! An area you are quite expert in. Remember at JC's wedding the priest said " The wedding of Canna - Jesus LOVED a party - so lets get to the reception!!!" Well, I'm sure Jesus loves
birthdays too!! Thanks Tim. We miss you!
With a great big hug, and a kiss from me to you!!!
Love,
Maggie Rousseau, Scott, Tim and Katie too!
T-Reills
Posted by Bob Hundertmark on 12:36:35 9/11/2003
hey reills.
went to a vigil on the boston common last night.
lit a candle, shed some tears, thought of you,
prayed for peace.
In my prayers
Posted by Mary Foley Morgan on 23:02:06 9/10/2003
Aunt Claire and family,
I want to take a moment to let you know that you are in my prayers and I think of you all often. I come here all the time to read the memories of Tim. It is great to see the many loving relationships he built over his lifetime. Below is my memory of the man Tim Reilly and how he loved.
Tim had the honesty he needed to look inside himself and discover what was really there, and also to see how his actions affected other people. He rid himself of pride that stands in the way of love. He knew not just the joy of love but the responsibilities that come with loving and being loved.
Timmy~
Posted by Betsy on 22:25:51 9/10/2003
Timmy... I think of you often out here in sunny Arizona. Of course I miss NY so very much, I must have been out of my mind to leave! I know you think so! I still cant believe what happend two years ago. My heart is heavy and it all still leaves me speechless. I now spend time reading the on-line NY Times especially the Metropolitan Diary, one of my favorites. There was a letter posted and It moved me so that I printed it out and framed it. It is the only thing I can think of to share with everyone right now~ So I will. God Bless ~
Always, Betsy
Dear Diary:
I had just left for work on a dreary morning and was walking along East 65th Street toward Second Avenue. Suddenly I realized that somewhere behind me, a man was singing in a beautiful operatic-quality voice. When I turned in that direction, I saw two sanitation workers removing trash bags from the curb. I retraced my steps and stared across the street: one of the men hauling the bags was the singer, and he was singing "Amazing Grace," the song punctuated by his powerful lifting and tossing of bag after bag into the truck. A nearby doorman and I marveled together at this moment of, well, amazing grace.
I crossed the street and approached the man, who was already in animated and delighted conversation with another woman who had appreciated his singing. How, I asked him, did he become a singing sanitation worker? He told us that he had worked at ground zero for many months, and that one of the chiefs had always said, "God bless America" at the workers' morning gathering. One day the sanitation worker, Andrew Macchio, leaped onto a table and sang "God Bless America." He sang it every day after that. Later, at the Catholic Masses at ground zero, a clergyman persuaded him to sing during the services. And now he sings while he works on the streets, making our city beautiful in more ways than one, and sharing with us something that he learned at ground zero about the human spirit. Listen for him.
Jenny Golub
Tim & Tennis
Posted by Cousin Tom Hughes on 8:59:39 9/10/2003
Tim:
Seeing Chuck's message regarding tennis reminds me of years ago at the infamous Warren Hotel in Spring Lake, NJ. You were down visiting with Walter and crew and gave my brother Rich and I an invite to partake in some "fun" tennis. Upon arrival you gratiously took us out (in our blue collar tennis garb-no all whites here apparel) and proceeded to give me a lesson in the art of the passing shot. That was my penance for trying to "unnerve" you with my Jersey Shore etiquette. Your response was passing shot after passing shot and an ever present grin. I believe I was officially retired from the game and left with my tail between my legs.
My consolation was that Tim treated us to drinks and was ever generous in the analysis of my game (or severe lack thereof), all the time with that ever present grin on a glorious summer day.
Ahh, the art of the passing shot Tim Reilly style!
Cousin Tom
Tim, Tennis and the US Open
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 18:09:33 9/9/2003
Tim,
No doubt you caught this year's US Open and the triumph of Andy Rodderick at Flushing Meadow. Man does that guy have some serve!
I was remembering with warm feelings your tennis days at Orienta and your friendly competition with the likes of Bob Hawthorn and Bobby Mons. I would be remiss not to mention that you always had my number.
I remember fondly the day you gave me a call in the office, (August 1996) to see if I had any interest in joining you at the US Open. It just so happened that you had afternoon and evening tickets in the Reliance National Insurance
Company's courtside box in Louis Armstrong Stadium, next to "the Donald". Man, what an afternoon and evening that was, espicially in the hospitality areas! Naturally, you were the "Mayor on Election Day" and knew everyone!
Tim, your still the best!
All my love,
Chuck
thanks for the visit
Posted by Kristen Chapin on 21:07:21 9/3/2003
Hi Timmy Tim,
This is the first time I've written but I check the site often. Thanks for the dream visit, I am now a believer! It all seemed so real I could actually hear the sound of your voice. When I woke up I was telling my husband about our "conversation" and we were laughing about all the times we ran into you all over Beantown during yuor stint here. You must have thought I was stalking you. I can't go by Fenway or the Cask without thinking of you. When I woke up I was so happy and so grateful for the chat and then so heartbroken. You are missed by so many but I'm sure you know that already.
You told me that the coolest thing about heaven is that you can look down on everyone no matter where in the world they are. You can glance down and see NY and Boston and look over the other way and see London or Dublin or wherever. I love that!! I love to know that you can keep an eye on us all. You must be watching lots of baseball and golf!! Put in a good word for the Red Sox (you know you're a closet fan!)
xo,
Cousin Kristen
The Reilly Rendevous Golf Outing II
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 17:41:21 9/2/2003
A second Reilly Rendevous Golf Outing is set for Monday October 6, at the Links at Union Vale in Union Vale New York. This outing is to commerate the spirit of Tim Reilly, a true friend to us all.
Last year we had a total of 28 golfers with a reception following thereafter which included doorprizes. A great time was had by all.
The Links at Union Vale is one of the toprated public golf courses in New York State and one of the prettiest links golf courses you'll play. Directions can be obtained from their website(www.thelinksatunionvale.com).
The cost of golf with a cart is $53. We need to know the exact amount of golfers for this event, as I cannot get tee times until I do. I will need to know everyone's availability by 5PM September 26. I will need a credit card name and number for the foursome to hold the spot.
Please call me at the office or email me with your reservations.(212-233-4646 or CJReilly@Reillyandco.com)
Best Regards,
Chuck Reilly
just a note
Posted by eric on 16:24:03 7/24/2003
Hi ho friends of Tim Reilly:
I too was lucky enough to know Tim, although for not more than a year and a half, together at Johnson & Higgins in the Property Claims department, one major regret beyond the obvious, I didn’t get to lunch with Tim enough. He could hold a knife and fork session like few others, and the laughter always came before business and continued long afterward.
I am reminded of Tim every time I see my wife’s wedding ring, because a friend of Tim’s was at a lunch one day who gave me the connection of “his guy”, not a chance I remember Tim’s friend’s name (loss adjuster from IRI), but I will always remember the great time we had holding down Filli Pointe for an afternoon.
Long story short, Tim was a fun guy to have known, a good laugher, and a contagious smiler,
Past the time
Posted by Chopper on 1:46:27 5/27/2003
Thinking of Tim the other day. Nothing too indepth. Someone was telling me of an apartment that they were moving into in Bklyn and the first thing that I think of is the Bridge party at Tim's and his everpresent smile. Oh the joy of simpler times. Never a dull moment when the thoughts involve Tim and the scattered thoughts of the Beechmont,O.B.C.,Antler Drive and Elk Ave.,big city and humble egos.(Give me a hug) Later
Brooklyn Bridge
Posted by bob hawthorn on 21:46:13 5/25/2003
tim,
it seems like yesterday that we were on the roof of your building on willow st. for the 100 year anniversary of the brooklyn bridge.i was watching the news and just smiling thinking of you . i have not visited the site in a few months. heals and i speak of you often. i think of you often as i walk the streets of nyc. i can have a Tim Reilly memory at any waking moment. TR i miss you but thoughts of you always bring a smile..B.H.
The small actions of our daily lives
Posted by Monique and Chuck Reilly on 18:00:09 4/19/2003
"It is often the small actions of our daily lives that, over time, have the greatest influence on the world."
With every holiday, one can't help but remember all of the little things you used to do.
Your smile was enough.
You were absolutely the HOST with the MOST!
Your influence will be felt forever.
We'll miss you at the Easter table.
Monique, Chuck, CJ, Connor and Bridget
PLRB
Posted by Patrick E Kennedy on 13:07:04 4/10/2003
Tim:
Jeannine & I attended the PLRB down in Disney World in Orlando, FL on 3/29 thru 4/3/03. As soon as we checked into our room, I called Chuck to determine where we were going to meet for dinner. When the phone rang in their room, Chuck said there's Pat. Monique said Pat who? In typical Chuck Reilly fashion he forgot to mentioned to Monique that we were meeting for dinner. We all had a wonderful dinner on Saturday night. One of the biggest laughs at dinner was when I told how you threw an impromptu cocktail party in Harold Ruddy's suite at the PLRB was in NYC.
Ed Bates from Boston was there and fondly shared his memories of you when you were situated in Bean Town. He admitted that he didn't truly appreciate your contribution until after you were gone.
A number of other people were asking for you and your family. I advised that family and friends are doing well.
I guess you and Rudy heard my prayers and helped our friend Stephen P. Cronin step over. As you were aware Steve was in a great deal of suffering since the middle of January with no relief in sight. Chuck and Uncle Ed have planned a Memorial Service at Our Lady of Victory on 4/25/03 at 11:00AM. I can remember stopping into OLV with Steve to say a short prayer when the troubles of life were pressing him down.
Good laughs were had by all when I related the tale of us playing golf at Lou Mangan golf outing. On his second shot, Steve hit the plastic sign for the longest drive and on impact with Steve's ball it exploded in pieces. I can still hear Steve calling for relief and watching you rolling on grass laughing your head off. When the awards were given out Steve got the longest drive prize since he destroyed all evidence who hit the long shot.
AON is moving downtown at the end of the month. It will increase my commute, but I like it downtown and it is closer to the good folks we all know.
I know you are doing well as you told me so in a dream.
Miss You Buddy,
Patrick
Memories We Hold On To
Posted by Monique and Chuck Reilly on 17:43:09 1/1/2003
"A new year is a reminder to celebrate all of the things that are good in your world...
the people you love, the places you are a part of, the memories you hold on to...
and those unforgettable moments when you close your eyes and breathe in life with a smile."
Thank you Tim for filling our hearts with many little reasons to celebrate this New Year... and always.
Thinking of you with smiles,
Chuck, Monique, CJ, Connor and Bridget
Happy New Year
Posted by Kevin and Rebecca OBrien on 1:47:20 12/29/2002
Thinking of Tim... and wishing all of the Reilly's and their extended families a wonderful 2003 filled with love, health and of course happiness.
We'll Always be There for You
Posted by Paul Schaetzle on 0:12:36 10/7/2001
As I sit here reflecting on the events of the past few weeks, I still have on my desk the Register of the friends who called at my father's wake on July 20, 2001. The sixth name entered on the register that runs several pages is none other than Tim Reilly. How well I remember his comforting words and consoling my Irish mother - Tim was a natural for bonding with any and all persons, but especially the Irish! Tim had known that my father was a retired Jersey City Firefighter, but he was impressed by the Honor Guard and the engine from my father's company posted outside. How ironic that the same company, Engine Co. 17, was part of the first contingent from outside the City of New York to respond to the Trade Center that horrible day!
The last time we spoke was on Friday evening Sept. 7 on the MDD cruise. Tim asked for my mother and rest of the family. Tim always had the ability to know your life history whether he knew you for eight years or eight minutes! He again reminded me that he wanted to set up a lunch with me and his friend Ed Dolan, former First Deputy Commissioner of the F.D.N.Y. How ironic that I would finally meet Ed Dolan on the steps of St. Patrick's Cathedral at Capt. Terry Hatton's Funeral. I introduced my self to Ed and we shared a few famous "Tim" stories.
Getting back to the night of Sept. 7th, his last words to me were "We'll always be there for you!".
Now that Tim's life has changed, not ended, as were so many other lives that day, he enjoys the divine ability to be all knowing. I am sure he knows that we too will always be there for you, Tim, and the rest of the Reillys! God Bless you all!
My Good Friend Tim
In Heartfelt Sympathy
Posted by Audrey Leschinski on 0:17:27 10/10/2001
I did not know Tim personally; But it's wonderful websites, and the evidence of a sister's love that bring Tim to life in the hearts and minds of others. May God bring you comfort and peace; may you find closure in that you were once blessed by the presence of Tim. Just know that nothing bad can come to him now, and that He lives on in the memory of friends and family.
A friend of Tom's...
Hug an Old Friend
Posted by Kerry Feeney on 15:28:15 9/11/2002
I dated TR5 over 12 years ago. I had the pleasure of watching the July 4th fireworks from the top of his building in Brooklyn Heights, a day at Gilgo Beach, a rugby match, a road trip to Boston, drinks and smokes in the Seaport just to name a few. He was great fun and I am deeply saddened by his loss and the grief that your family has to bear.
The last time I saw Tim was in July 2001 in Central Park at the New York Philharmonic concert. We had not seen each other in 11 years. We had spotted each other in the crowd, however I did not cross over the many blankets of people to say hello to him. I was with my husband, 2 year old daughter and 4 month old son and at the time it seemed impossible to maneuver our way through the crowd to speak with him. How I regret that. From the moment I heard of Tim's death I promised myself to never let that happen again. Now I will walk across hot coals and broken glass to hug a old friend.
I remember Tim today, and pray for all of you on this very difficult first anniversary.
Kerry Guiney Feeney
thoughts
Posted by Aimee on 17:29:38 9/11/2002
I can't believe it's been a year. Tim is in everyone's thoughts today. His smile will be in our minds forever.
Thoughts a year later
Posted by Uncle Tom on 19:55:39 9/11/2002
The fog of grief has not lifted. A day never passes that the image of a grinning Tim sets aside all other thoughts. It is as if that image, imbeded so firmly in my mind, defines who this wonderful young man was. Tim Reilly was far from being a saint but he delt with family, friends, aquintances,and strangers in a saintly manner. He gave all his respect. He gave his friends his support in good and bad times. He reserved for his family and ever abiding love that spoke volumes of his deep sense of loyalty. For those who sought help he always extended his hand. That quality saved my sons life.
Tim led the good life. That fact allows a small comfort. A success in life. But no greater success than that of a son, a brother, a cousin and friend.
In my mind I see the happy highways that Tim traveled and the people who shared the journey. In that I find peace.
Timmy- we hardly knew ya
An Odd Connection
Posted by Tom and Kris Rainville on 19:57:26 9/11/2002
It's been a year, one that none of us can forget. I felt an odd and personal connection to this tragedy. Not knowing Tim, but being a close friend of his Uncle Joe Hughes in Florida, I felt compelled to search for his name on the banner that ran all day on TV. I found his name listed in a special section of our Florida newspaper, the St Petersburg Times. Looking at the pictures posted on this site, and reading the messages and words of love and admiration, I feel such a sorrow over the loss of a man I did not know but would liked to have known. God BLess the Reilly and Hughes family, and know that Tim has affected the lives of people he did not even know..Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
To all the Reilly's
Posted by Mary Morgan on 20:09:20 9/11/2002
You are all in my heart and prayers today. I pray that God's peace and love reign in your lives. Tim is very much on my mind today and he is sorely missed. My daughter Hannah had to write an essay on someone who is a hero and she wrote about Tim. As soon as I get it back from school I will send to you. Her point was that Tim was a hero in the way he lived his life, not in his death. I love you all. Mary
tim
Posted by cowrker on 21:44:23 9/11/2002
I wouldn't say I knew Tim as well as the many others who have remarked on their own experiences with him, but I did have the opportunity to work with Tim briefly in CT. In the short time I worked with Tim, it became clear that he was a hard-working,down to earth type of guy who was easy to make conversation with and pleasant to be around. My condolences to his Family and relatives. God bless,..
Toasts to Tim
Posted by Al Thuma on 10:30:25 9/13/2002
Dear Maureen,
I'm sure I speak for the group from the Ski House when I say one year later the loss of Tim is no less painful than a year ago. We send you our prayers, thoughts and words of comfort. Several of us met in Battery Park in the morning to watch the memorial services on TV and from Janine's balcony. While Tim's face and his name brought tears to many of our eyes, memories of him also brought smiles. Later on the evening we met in several locations around the Tri-State area [and Chicago] to speak of our memories of Tim and to toast him. He will always be in our thoughts, especially on 9/11 and the first January ski day every year.
Your friends in the Old Stone House
News Updates & Thanks
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 12:19:16 9/13/2002
I have updated the news section today with some pictures of the 9.11 "One Year Later" events, info on the Tim Reilly Memorial Fund and a Sail for America Event happening tomorrow (Saturday 9/14).
Thank you to all who posted messages on 9.11
and thank you to all who continue to visit this website...
-maureen
Remembrance
Posted by Brigid Rubin on 16:15:07 9/16/2002
I was at Stonehill today for a brief meeting and floods of many memories came crashing through. The Stonehill newspaper had a picture of a memorial candle light service held in the commons last Wednesday, the 11th. The friend who was watching my small son for me today while I was at Stonehill lost her brother that day. We talked for a while when I got back about this past year and her family. The ups and the downs, etc...I can imagine this past year has been a wild rollercoaster ride for you all as well. I will keep the Reilly family in my thoughts and I really believe that Tim is right there with you all.
I was so happy to see the memorial playground in Tim's honor! Also, I have to say that the baby named after Tim is just BEAUTIFUL! Congratulations!
You Don't Know Me....
Posted by Eileen McGinley on 15:29:20 9/18/2002
You don't know me, but I have read every inch of the website devoted to Tim Reilly and I have cried my eyes out. What a loss to all who knew and loved him. And what a beautiful tribute to have set up this memorial in his memory.
I can tell all the Reilly's are a class act.
May God bless you all, as he holds Tim in the palm of his hand.
Reilly Rendevous Update
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 15:46:12 9/20/2002
The Reilly Rendovous is tentatively set for October 4th at the Links at Union Vale, 153 North Parliman Road Union Vale, New York (Website www.thelinksatunionvale.com - Telephone No. 845-223-1000).I need to know the exact amount of golfers for this event, as I cannot get tee times until I do. I will need to know everyone's availability by 5 p.m., September 26th. I will be arranging the tee times with the course on Friday, September 27th. I will be looking at a mid morning start. Directions can be obtained from the website. The rate for 18 holes of golf with a cart is $70.00. A number of people have contacted me about contributing to the Holy Rosary School Fund. As many of you know a playground has been built at this school in memory of Tim. We have some money left over and want to build a computer lab for the school or fund a scholarship in Tim's name. I will leave the amount you wish to donate up to each individual. Please call me at the office with your reservations (talk to Gloria, if I am not in at 212-233-4646 or e-mail me at errandco@aol.com (C.J. Reilly)
Best Regards,
Chuck Reilly
Reilly Rendevous Starting Times
Posted by Chuck Reilly on 16:30:19 9/30/2002
We have 28 golfers committed to the outing this Friday. The foursomes and the tee times are as follows,
Foursomes Tee Time
1. T. Erhardt 11:10 a.m.
J. Rousis
B. Goble
J. Elder
2. M. Renk 11:20 a.m.
R. Hughes
N. Reilly
N. Reilly, II
3. B. Dwyer 11:30 a.m.
S. Fugazy
J. Fitzgerald
B. Hawthorne
4. Pat Kennedy 11:40 a.m.
B. Welch
V. Cosolino
J. Fisher
5. K. O'Brien 11:50 a.m.
M. Brix
J. Mattimore
T. Manus
6. C. Reilly 12:00 a.m.
J. Brady
J. Healy
J. Dunn
7. J. Galloway 12:10 a.m.
E. Burrell
P. Malanaphy
F.J. Whoopie
I plain to be there at approximately 9:30 a.m. and we are planning on some giveaways. See you on Friday.
Best Regards,
Chuck Reilly
REMEMBERING TIM BIRTHDAY
Posted by AGNES RIELLY on 16:59:31 10/3/2002
I LOOKED UP AT THE SKY
AND I ASKED GOD WHY?
ILOOKED THROUGH THE TREES
AND IASKED GOD WHY?
THERE IS NO ANSWER WAS HIS REPLY.
WE NEVER KNOW THE REASON WHY
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TIM WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU.
AUNT AGNES
Golf & Birthday
Posted by Cousin Tom Hughes on 13:43:34 10/4/2002
Tim:
We celebrate your birthday with a bunch of the boys cracking balls down presumably a very wet fairway. I suppose that's the way it would be playing on a links style course in Ireland, something you would know well. I hope all went well and the boys hoisted a few afterwards in celebration.
Oh well, back to tending to little Chris as he has a throat infection. Watching Bob the Builder cartoons and reading books with Dinosaur themes (what else??). Chris still doesn't know if he's lefty or righty when it comes to swinging mini golf clubs-hopefully lefty like big brother so he gets the hand-me-down clubs. Yankees will try again this year. At least they are there-the Sox suffer through year 84 and counting without a World title. Serves us Boston fans right.
Enjoy and happy birthday. Now it's time for me to try a new way of giving a 5 year old his amoxicillin pink medicine. Wish me luck!
Cousin Tom
Thinking of you today...
Posted by Monique and Chuck Reilly on 17:31:11 10/5/2002
"All that we send into the lives of others,
comes back into our own."
We cherish all that you have sent into our lives...
We still see your smile.
We still hear your laugh.
We still feel your love.
We miss having you here with us.
Reilly Rendevous Golf Outing
Posted by Patrick E Kennedy on 12:53:49 10/15/2002
Tim:
I guess you were testing us on 10/4/02 to see which of the steadfast golfers would show up. It was a cold and wet day for golf but the Links at Unionvale were superb. It was very challenging and the views were beautiful. I played with Jack Fisher, Vince Cozzolino both of Hugh Wood and Bob Welsh. We all had a Tim Reilly Tale or two to tell. Rocco Bianchi was there, Keith O'Brien along with some weathered looking rugby players, Tommy Erhardt with Jim Ryder and Jim Roussis. Brendan is very busy with # 2 (a/k/a your namesake) and could not attend. If Jimmy Dunn had shown up I would have had competition for the Honest Golfer Award. Your sisters came through and supplied Chuck with some great prizes. We all miss you and that infectious laugh you so generously shared with us. The Garden State Pond is playing today, it is cool but sunny. I can think of several times when we played out there together.
Thanks for visiting me in my dream, it is very comforting to know that you are OK and everything is fine.
Do they really wear seer sucker suits in Heaven?
Miss you Buddy.
Love,
PK
What a beautiful tribute
Posted by Linda and Joe Costelloe on 23:49:43 10/29/2002
Our hearts go out to all the Reilly's, family and friends of Tim. What a tremendous loss. Please know that you have been in our prayers. We have been moved to tears, and are absolutely speechless at the depth, sincerity, and healing power of this site. Tim's time on this earth, although cut much too short, was certainly not wasted. It's hard not to smile through the tears at the wonderful stories, and all the good that come from his life. The strength you garner through the love of your family and friends is so apparent. God Bless you all --
Linda & Joe Costelloe and Family
Re: Reils!
Posted by Peter Campbell on 14:30:39 11/19/2002
Nothing but smiles when you think of Riles. Peter, where are you? Send me your email. Riles will be the cause for us getting caught up. Can't wait to hear from you. Peter
Reils!
Posted by Peter Joyce on 21:36:59 11/6/2002
I don't miss saying "Reils!!", because I say it eveyday, or at least whenever I need a smile. But I do miss seeing his smile...oh that smile. Damit, I do miss that!
Hey Riles, you're in my smile. Thanks!
Peter
Hey Timmy~
Posted by Betsy on 0:16:16 11/10/2002
I moved back to Arizona, but you know know that.. I hear ya laughing!! As I drove over the GWB on that bright sunny day...on my way out of NYC ~ you were there..and always will be. I brought my Yankee Cap and umbrella (remember) just to remind these Diamond Backs who is boss!!
Always..Betsy
Jury Duty
Posted by Maureen Reilly on 10:32:36 11/16/2002
Hey Tim - you got a call for Jury Duty - well, this is one postponement they HAVE to accept - you're beatin' the system!
[cue: Tim does the "Tim Shuffle"]
Love, momo
The Holidays
Posted by Peter Campbell on 13:56:44 12/13/2002
I'm sure these can be some difficult days for the Reilly family, but I would like to wish all of you a very Merry Christmas. Brendan's new child, Timothy II, will be experiencing his first Christmas. Man, is he going to love all that paper. I can remember some absolutely magical days in New York with Tim and the snow falling down. I have lived in a few cities up to this time in my life, and nothing compares to NY around Christmas time.
Peter
Have a nice holiday
Posted by Tom Hughes on 10:55:39 12/23/2002
To Aunt Claire and Uncle Bob and the whole Reilly contingent-God Bless, have a great holiday and let's have a white Christmas for once (for the little ones and some of us big ones too!)
Happy New Year
Posted by Kevin and Rebecca OBrien on 1:47:20 12/29/2002
Thinking of Tim... and wishing all of the Reilly's and their extended families a wonderful 2003 filled with love, health and of course happiness.
Memories We Hold On To
Posted by Monique and Chuck Reilly on 17:43:09 1/1/2003
"A new year is a reminder to celebrate all of the things that are good in your world...
the people you love, the places you are a part of, the memories you hold on to...
and those unforgettable moments when you close your eyes and breathe in life with a smile."
Thank you Tim for filling our hearts with many little reasons to celebrate this New Year... and always.
Thinking of you with smiles,
Chuck, Monique, CJ, Connor and Bridget
4 comments:
Missing Tim all the time. Some closure tonight, but it made me cry thinking of him an innocent victim, God Bless America, and may you rest in peace Tim. I will toast you tonight and when with your friends!
Jim McDonald, Brockton/Tiki Room
Thank you, very nice post.
A few years ago I visited the museum at Ground Zero and afterwards I made a donation and received a bracelet that honored a victim of the 9/11 attacks on the USA. There is a US flag and a name on the bracelet. The name on my bracelet is Timothy E. Reilly. WTC. I am a flight attendant and tomorrow I take to the skies for a long journey from Detroit to Shanghai. I will wear my bracelet with pride in honor of your special father, husband, son, brother, uncle, and friend- Timothy E. Reilly. I am so sorry for your loss. We will never forget.
Beth N. Chicago, IL
Maureen and family
My heart goes out to you and your family. I will always remember you and your love of your brother.
Heidi Bailey
LEGO colleague
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